Lawrence County Said THIS Is the Fastest Way to Lose Respect…
You can dress nice, smile sweet, and hold the door open all you want—but one wrong move and poof, respect's gone like a biscuit at breakfast.
We asked folks from Lawrence County what immediately makes them lose respect for someone, no matter how nice they seemed at first. The answers? Honest, funny, and so dang relatable. Let’s count it down, Southern-style — from the minor “no-thank-yous” to the full-on red flags 🚩
🧂 10. The Small Stuff (But Still Annoying)
These didn’t come up as often, but when they did... folks felt strong about it.
“Smoking or dipping.” – Donna Hester Flannagan
“Using the word ‘Bro’ too much.” – J.D. Cahill
“Littering.” – Michael Terry
Just a reminder: we’re not in a college frat or a trash can.
🫢 9. Bad Priorities & Being a Sorry Parent
A few people said the way someone parents—or doesn’t—can change how they see 'em real quick.
“Putting themselves before their kid(s).” – Jessica Leigh
“Smoking while pregnant or holding a baby.” – Daniella Alexander
“Putting a man or woman before their kids.” – Wanda Jordan
Respect starts at home, y’all.
🗣️ 8. Fake Folks & Drama Starters
Wearing a mask that ain’t for Halloween? That’s a quick way to get the side-eye.
“Being fake for social status.” – Tammy Harris
“Two-faced.” – Twila Hood
“Causing problems, then playing the victim.” – Shelbi Smith
Keep it real—or keep your distance.
💵 7. Arrogance & Know-It-Alls
Confidence is fine. Acting like you're better than everyone else? Not so much.
“Bragging about money.” – Teresa Pointer
“Thinking they’re better than others.” – Marla Shirah
“Being a snob and a know-it-all.” – Teresa Pointer
Humble pie’s still on the menu around here.
🧊 6. Cold-Hearted Behavior
When folks show no compassion, people notice.
“No heart for kids or animals.” – Renee Israel
“Mistreating elders.” – Karen Wise
“Cruelty for no reason.” – April Sparks
Respect ain’t just about how you act—it’s who you show it to.
🫣 5. Rude to the Help
This one hit a nerve with a lot of folks.
“Being rude to cashiers and waitstaff.” – Mary Rutherford
“Talking down to people.” – Carolyn Thornton
“Disrespecting people just because you can.” – Chassidy Terry Bradford
Pro tip: how you treat a server says more than your Sunday best ever could.
🐾 4. Cruelty to the Defenseless
Nothing makes respect vanish faster than watching someone harm someone—or something—that can’t fight back.
“Mistreating animals.” – Patricia McCaghren
“Abandoning your kids or pets.” – Jessika Rose
“Being a deadbeat parent.” – Tammy Stewart
Love and protect the ones who depend on you. Period.
😤 3. Using God’s Name in Vain & Foul Language
We’re all grown, but many folks still expect a clean mouth in mixed company—and especially around kids or elders.
“Using God’s name in vain.” – Krista Horton
“I hate the F word.” – Jane Rains
“Profanity in general.” – Multiple folks
For many, it ain’t just manners—it’s morals.
🥴 2. Disrespect, Blame Games, and No Accountability
People can handle mistakes—but not if you play the victim or blame everyone else.
“Never taking accountability.” – Ruby Mears
“Treating others like they don’t matter.” – Jean Vincent
“Being disrespectful for no reason at all.” – Prater Paws
At the end of the day, owning your actions is still classy.
🔥 1. The Ultimate Dealbreaker: LYING
No surprise here—lying was by far the most mentioned offense.
“Lying with no remorse.” – Dewanna Jones
“Lying and stealing.” – Multiple folks
“Cheating, lying, and being fake.” – Susan Lee
Whether it’s a white lie or a full-blown whopper, most folks around here would rather deal with the truth, no matter how ugly.
✨ The Final Word
You don’t have to be perfect to earn respect. But if you lie, mistreat others, or act like you’re better than everyone else—you might just find yourself on folks’ “no thanks” list.
Around here, we believe in kindness, honesty, and being good to one another. It ain’t complicated—but it does go a long way.
