To Hug or Not to Hug? That Is the Question
It started with a simple question: “Are you a hugger?” But the answers poured in with passion, humor, and a little Southern charm, turning a lighthearted LCtoday post into a full-blown community conversation.
A County of Huggers
The overwhelming response? Yes. From big bear hugs to quick squeezes, most Lawrence Countians proudly claim hugging as part of who they are. Many said it’s simply how they were raised — a tradition passed down in families and churches, where a handshake isn’t enough and a hug seals the moment.
One reader joked, “If I’m getting a hug, give me a hug — not this whole barely-touching-your-back thing. Bear hugs all day!” Another added with pride, “I am Southern born and raised... yes, I am a hugger!”
The Conditional Crowd
Not everyone jumps into open arms right away. A noticeable group said their comfort depends on who’s doing the hugging. “I’m not a hugger until I get to know you. After that, hug away,” one person admitted. Others said they save hugs for close friends and family, preferring a little space from strangers.
Those Who Say “No Thanks”
A small but firm minority made it clear they’d rather pass. “Absolutely not. Please don’t,” one reader commented. Another put it more simply: “That would be a NO.”
What Science Says About Hugging
While opinions vary, research shows hugs pack more than just emotional warmth:
Stress Relief: A good hug reduces cortisol, the hormone tied to stress.
Heart Health: Studies find a 20-second hug can lower blood pressure and calm the heart rate.
Stronger Immunity: Physical touch, including hugs, may actually boost the immune system.
Mood Booster: Hugs trigger oxytocin, the so-called “love hormone,” leaving people feeling connected and happier.
Cultural Notes
Not all cultures view hugging the same way. In the South, it’s often considered a natural greeting, but in other parts of the world, hugs are reserved for the closest of relationships. Some readers echoed that sentiment, noting they’ve only recently become “huggers” after being influenced by church or community groups.
The Hug Meter
LCtoday readers tipped the scales strongly toward the “yes” side. Out of dozens of comments, around 75% said they’re huggers, 15% said it depends, and just 10% said no. That means Lawrence County is, without a doubt, a place where hugs are the rule more than the exception.
Wrapping It Up
Whether it’s a tight squeeze from family, a friendly church hug, or just a wave from a distance, the question proved one thing: hugs may be simple, but they carry weight in how we connect with one another.
As one commenter summed it up with a smile: “Yep. All the way. Love hugs!”